BanditLOAF said:
...Religion should serve to help people, either as on the individual or societal levels. If it is not doing this, what is the point of believing in it?
...How can you reconcile the fact that what you're willing to support hurting people on a grand scale simply because the 2,986th translation of a fable vaugely implies that you might be 'morally' allowed to do so?...Any group that will suggest that I inflict suffering simply to avoid admitting it's no longer valid isn't fulfilling its purpose.
...I do have a problem with the fact that society in general looks to the church (as it should) and then decides things like that gay couples can't be married.
-- Um, no. The very purpose of religion (at least of the Christian faith) is to serve God, and decidedly NOT "people" (esp. ourSELVES). The idea is, in serving God wholeheartedly, we end UP serving mankind, as God loves us all (John 3:16). The problem in human's understanding of the concept is that what WE think to be "good" for mankind is quite a bit different than what God KNOWS to be good for us. The prophet Isaiah quoted God as saying:
""For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the LORD.
As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.
As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it
without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater,
so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire
and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.
(ISA 55:8-11)
The "word" spoken of by Isaiah here is the Bible. That's why the Bible was given to us in the first place: So that mankind would have a blueprint as to what God wants/expects of us in serving Him.
It's like this: When we are children, we don't know squat, and as we grow we learn more and more, but until we get up to being adults ourselves, it is our parents who "know best", and they try their best to guide us into what is good for us. Same concept: God is the ultimate Parent, and what seems best to us all too often is *not* actually so (Proverbs 14:12).
-- Um, what exactly are you talking about with that whole "hurting people on a grand scale" passage?...
-- Huh?...The church didn't "then decide" gays couldn't be married. It was that way from the very beginning: God was there outlawing such conduct even as the nation of Israel was being formed (Exodus et al), which was thousands of years before there even WAS a church...
Needaham45 said:
And there haven't been preists and Bishops who haven't sinned? That would make them God - we all sin. The Pope's probably sinned, and so has your own priest, everyone's priest. Just because your a member of clegry doesn't mean you're exempt from sinning.
Good point.
To answer yer question, though, *sure* there have been, and are, clergy that sin (as indeed all humanity does). But if their sins are grevious enough (esp. sexual hijinks of whatever kind) and should come to light, they should be drummed out of office, and - if applicable, as with the pervert priests scandal - sent directly to jail. If they had any integrity at all, they would confess their sins, repent of them, and VOLUNTARILY leave office, for the sake of the integrity of the church and the Lord they supposedly serve. It's the only honorable thing to do. Their failure to do so only proves their unfitness for office in the 1st place.
dextorboot said:
Preach, ...According to your definition (and what you seem to be arguing), the Catholic Church is a breeding ground for cover-ups, which no one could ever deny even before the media started covering pedophilia. The only way you could say that it was a breeding ground for pedophilia ...On the grand scale, that's not what's happening...
Poor Reagan. I really feel sorry for the old man. Almost everyone loved him while he was President and now that he's lost it everyone bashes him. It really is sad.
-- Well, OK, how 'bout this, then: The RCC - at least until recently, and hopefully nevermore hereafter - has become a haven for pedophiles. Does that phraseology/terminology sit better with you?...
-- No, there are plenty of us who "bashed" him perfectly well when he was still in office. His Alzheimer's didn't change this much, if at all.
Bob McDobb said:
-- I don't know if one can theorize how an environment might factor into homosexuality... An upbringing is an extremely complex arrangement of variables, and it's pretty hard to theorize as to what might factor into something like that.
...The notion of a completely straight man is unrealistic;...Put enough heterosexual males together for a long enough period of time with no female companionship (see French foreign legion), and you will find that straight men can be a little more flexible than expected.
If we imagine that people can be 90% hetero and 10% homo or 60% hetero and 40% homo etc., it's not hard to see how homosexuals could persist in society despite not breeding. They are simply sitting slightly outside the normal range of a continuously variable characteristic."
-- Not that hard to theorize at all, actually: Studies have shown that there is a high correlation between certain types of upbringing and the likelihood that a person will turn out gay. Specifically, an upbringing where the father is either absent, or (if he is present in the family at all) is cold, distant, and unloving toward the child, and the mother is overly controlling and protective towards the child. This is mainly in the case of males, but it may also hold for the female children of such a household as well.
-- Your theory is seriously flawed, guy. To put things in perspective, it brings things into focus to remember that your example spoke of the
French, fer cryin' out loud. 'Nuff said...
-- Well, I don't know about you, dude, but I'm 100% hetero, which pretty much blows your theory out of the water. I love the smooth curve of bountiful breasts, the way a woman smells, the wonderfully mysterious terrain of her, um, "womanhood", the way they laugh, the sweet sound of their voice as they speak and sing, or say/moan my name, the rich thickness of her hair running thru my fingers, the smooth softness of their skin, the dangerous curves of the feminine hips, butt, and thighs, the way it feels - from beginning to end - to "be" with them; damn, the whole PACKAGE!!!.
As the late comic Sam Kinison said: "..how can a guy look at another guy's hairy a@@, and call that love, huh? How does that work?...
I have no desire (no, not even a 0.5% desire...) to find out the answer to his question. Uggghhhh!!!
::shudders::