Lets alter this a little bit, and then I can work on a clarification for Quarto about the racial profiling. He made an excellent point.
Dispute Resolution 101
Ill take two high profile events, one of which I have already mentioned, and the three low profile events I have already mentioned, and look at actual and alternate outcomes.
1. The bully in the house 1971:
Actual outcome: When threatened with death or serious bodily harm, the intruder left, and no one was hurt.
Alternate outcome: I attempt to force the intruder to leave with inferior strength and skill, and would probably be beaten until he got tired of beating me.
I prefer the actual outcome, because no one was hurt.
2. The 300 pound slob in the jail 1979:
Actual outcome: We all go to the hospital. I with a smashed face and jaw broken in two places, he with a broken nose (hopefully, I dont know for sure, but I was trying to smash it into his brain) some missing teeth, at least badly sprained fingers, (I was trying to break them) a couple of real good bites on the arm. It was a pretty vicious fight.
Alternate outcome: I suck his dick. I think that as bad as the actual outcome was, I think that the other choice would have to be me getting dead for this to look good.
I prefer the actual outcome.
3. Reginald Denny attacked in the L.A. riots, 1991:
Actual outcome: Denny is dragged from his truck, beaten, smashed in the head with a brick, kicked repeatedly, shot at and left for dead. He didnt die, but got about as close as you could and not. The bad guys get away with it. And he is screwed up for life.
Alternate outcome: Denny defends himself with the threat of deadly force, and is at best left alone, at worst the bad guys get dead or seriously injured, and Denny runs out of ammo and we return to the actual outcome.
I would have preferred the alternate outcome, because at least there was a chance that no one would get hurt.
4. The idiot in the traffic jam 1991:
Actual outcome: When threatened with death or serious bodily harm, the idiot goes away, and no one is hurt.
Alternate outcome: Hopefully, if ignored, he will go away. He didnt appear to be ready to do that any time soon. So I must defend myself without a weapon. Now this guy is more my size, so unless he has some for real no B.S. martial arts training, or a knife or razor or something, hes got a guaranteed trip to the hospital coming. And of course, theres a good chance that he can dish it out as good as me, which means I might be headed to the hospital too.
I prefer the actual outcome. No one, especially me, got hurt.
5. Nicole Brown Simpson and Ron Goldman 1994:
Actual outcome: Simpson and Goldman get cut up and dead. The bad guy(s) got away with it.
Alternate outcome: One or both of them responds to the attack with deadly force, and the attacker ends up dead or seriously injured.
I think the alternate outcome would be best, at least therein lies the chance that they might still be alive. And in the event that it wasnt O.J. that did it, we would know for sure.