Sylvester
Vice Admiral
Struts are your friend. Its basically impossibly to build a large rocket without them. The games' physics engine only calculates stuff like forces and torques around a single connection point between parts (they did this in order to keep the math the game was doing down). The consequence is that any small torque is going to cause things to wobble, which will get more pronounced on larger heavier objects. I always connect all my fuel tanks with a couple of struts - this increases the number of connections and therefore the physics engine dampens down the movement a great deal.